Brilliant Tools for Conflict Styles - special for emailing

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                 Hear this audio clip!               

 

Two podcast hosts have a lively exchange about the Style Matters score report.  They are talking to John, who just took Style Matters.  They've studied the numbers carefully.  They are warm and generous in appreciating John's strengths and insightful in their suggestions. 
 
Listen to a minute of that conversation.  Is this insightful interpretation?  Would you recommend these two to Style Matters users?  
 
My thought: I'll take 'em!   They've grasped the heart of John's report.  They converse about it in ways that I think John would find helpful.   Especially if he's taking Style Matters on his own, without benefit of a coach or a class, this commentary would be quite useful. 
 
So here's the truth:  This lively pair are already available to you and any Style Matters users.  For free!  They are a digital creation of Notebook LLM, a Google service at https://notebooklm.google/.   Anyone with a Google account can login there, upload their  Style Matters score report in PDF, and generate a similar dialogue about their own report, plus several other study resources.
 
It's all pre-configured - no setup, no learning curve, no fiddling with options.  Just upload your report, wait for a minute while it processes, and the audio clip then appears on your screen, ready to use!   
 

 


After your Sources are uploaded, the dashboard offers numerous presentations based on them.   See them below.  Individual users will see only their own name here.  However, to show the possibilities, in the view below, I've created a dashboard for a team for whom I want to create discussion resources. You can listen to the audio conversation about these three here.


 

These are awesome resources for individual users, teams, and trainers!

For Individuals 

Listening to two intelligent people who've carefully digested your Style Matters report talk about what they see is a great way to get your head around the contents.    I'd still recommend studying the original written report, since the 10 minute conversation from Notebook only hits the highlights.  But as a quick review of key insights from the report, it's a wonderful intro.

Besides the Audio Summary you might find it useful to review these:
1) Written summary of the score report
2) Study Guide with questions for consideration and suggested answers.
3) FAQs and Table of Contents

The Chatbot at bottom of the page functions as a full-power AI prompt directed towards your Sources.  You could use it, for example, to request a list of skills recommended for you to work on.  After looking at the list, if you want to learn and practice a specific skill, you could tell the Chatbot:  "Give me some examples of what it would look like for me to make 'I statements' (or whatever the suggested skill is)."

You could then go farther still and ask the Chatbot to create a simulation for you to practice the skill you're working on.  "Set up a simulation so I can practice using 'I statements'".  

Here's something else to try:  Keep a journal of conflict experiences.  Log a series of conversations with someone with whom you are having difficulty. Update the log over time.   Enter the log as a source document on your Dashboard.  Next time you expect another conversation, give the Chatbot a prompt something like this:  "Help me prepare for a meeting based on information in my Journal and my conflict styles report.   Give me some advice for this meeting, some do's and don'ts.   Suggest some skills I should try to use in this meeting."   

For Partners, Couples and Teams

It's a simple matter to upload two or more score reports to Notebook.   If you then add one simple instruction, you instantly have a remarkably insightful guide for reflecting on interaction of these people.   I have only done this with three score reports at a time and do not know the upper limits, but for three it worked fine.   Here's how:

1) Start with a fresh notebook that does not contain other uploads.  (Notebook allows you to have multiple notebooks.)
2) Upload the reports of the users involved.  Upload each report as a separate Source.
3) Add the following as a Source (not a Note).  Copy it from here, paste it into the option for copy/paste text, and modify it to reflect the number of people in your situation and your needs. 

These are three reports from 3 different people.  Our main interest is to help them understand how to work more effectively with each other, based on the info in these reports. IMPORTANT: We want to help them understand ways they could trigger each other unintentionally and give them ideas on how to support and bring out the best in each other.

Now the Notebook is prepared to deliver a variety of useful resources.   The Audio Summary creates a sparkling audio conversation with very specific comments addressing potential problems and how to avoid them.   The Written Summary offers a nice summary of the three reports and how the users are likely to interact.   The chatbot invites further questions and will give responses informed by the score reports. 

Domestic partners could have a blast with this!  Upload your conflict styles PDFs as two source files.  Add a third source file that describes a conflict that you are having.  Give each person's views on this issue separately so it is clear.   Include some of the rationales behind those views.   Then add a fourth source file with these instructions:  "Important: We want to laugh at ourselves! Start the Audio Interview with a mock dialogue of us having a disagreement on our major conflict, a roleplay that is an exaggerated demonstration of what it would sound like if the two of us had a disagreement. This is really all we care about - just hearing a parody of us!" With a firm mandate like that the Audio Interview will include a minute or two of parody and then comment about it.

Then use the Chatbot for further input.  Give prompts like:  "Suggest ways we can use the strengths of each of us to benefit our relationship."  "What are predictable patterns of difficulty we should beware of given our conflict styles."  "Suggest skills and strategies for each of us that are likely to be appreciated by the other."

For Coaches and Consultants

Ways to incorporate the above into coaching and consulting are obvious and need no elaboration.   Don't miss out on using the Chatbot in the note to generate wonderfully useful learning resources tailored to the individuals or team you're working with.     

For example, you can instruct the bot:  "Create three roleplay scenarios that would be useful in training this team."    The bot will dutifully provide three scenarios ready for use.   Better yet, specify scenarios around certain problem issues.  Eg: "Generate three roleplay scenarios involving office desk arrangements for training this team."  (Remember, of course, that using scenarios at a slight remove from live issues might make it easier for your users to relax and learn skills and avoid having their buttons pushed.)  

Final Thoughts

I've experimented with AI for several months. It's a "mixed bag" for conflict resolution trainers.  AI  hallucinates, makes stuff up out of whole cloth, so with most AI results it's "Buyer beware!"  Then too, devising good prompts takes experimentation and time.   

This platform reduces those problems, thanks to its simplicity and narrow focus.  Notebook frames all its responses around the sources you have inputted.  This limited mandate seems to make it less vulnerable to hallucination.   I've encountered none so far.   
 
Similarly, creating prompts seems to be less of a challenge with Notebook than with full-blown Gemini, ChatGPt and other AI engines.   Here the key functions are pre-set.  You just select the one you want, click, and out comes the requested product.   
 
This is the easiest-to-learn computer application I've used in many years.   Everything is in front of you in one simple control screen.   It's so intuitive you don't need instructions.   The "learning curve" can be counted in seconds, not hours or days.    Notebook is a fantastic learning resource that deserves widespread use.  Did I mention, it's free! 
 
That said, there is a downside we must consider:  Recently we are learning about extravagant demands that AI makes on natural resources.  It requires water for cooling and electricity for high power computers, in amounts so vast that entire regions are now struggling under the load. 
 
My view is that the cat's out of the bag on these powerful tools.  Their usefulness makes them too good to relinquish.  The technology is in early stages and there will be ways to make it more efficient in use of natural resources.   I think our only option is to proceed, but with resolute determination to insist on regulation, monitoring, and energy efficiency.   These should be set by knowledgeable people who have no financial stake in the industry and backed by governmental policies and regulations.   
 
What do you think about Notebook? AI in general?  I'm also posting this on Facebook which has a Comments section.  I'd love to hear your thoughts!